“He’s a male, but is he a man?”

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He’s a male because he’s born as such. Yet, as he “grows” does that automatically make him a man?

No. I know from my “experience” that every male over 21 isn’t a man. In fact, many are boys to their core.

Boys are immature, uncertain, inconsistent, rebellious, irresponsible, disloyal, unfaithful, impatient and disruptive.

Men are accountable, dependable, consistent, loyal, faithful, compromising, humbling, mature, chivalrous and subtle.

Now I won’t go too deep into this, because I honestly could go on and on and on….

I encourage you “women” to recognize the “boys to a core” you’ve been “baby sitting.”

Don’t be ashamed, don’t be desperate to “hold on” to someone whose pulling you down. By no means should you be carrying the weight he was designed to carry…. Know when enough is enough…

Remember women, ladies, and girls…  “You’re too amazing to let someone bring you down! You DESERVE to be happy and loved. NOBODY should make you feel anything less!”